Matchmaking and Dating Tips for Women: 8 great pick up situations with lines to use right now and get immediate results.
Go First Class
Fly first class, or at the very least, business class. It’s not that you can’t meet a guy in coach; it’s just more likely that you’ll meet others and feel more comfortable talking to your neighbors in first or business class. Both are smaller than the coach sections. And the seats are smaller so you’re not in an uncomfortable position—flirting can be difficult when there is physical discomfort. The first class section can also feel much more romantic.
Super Shopping
Large pet and sporting goods super stores are great places to meet single men. These stores are everywhere! Many people go to these stores just for the sake of going—don’t hesitate to ask advice from other male customers. Large home centers may also attract single men, but these kinds of stores are more of a draw for families.
Opening Nights
Opening nights or the beginning of anything in the arts—gallery shows, opera, plays, concerts, or the ballet—attract tons of people including single men, not just gay men. Many men attend them to impress their boss or simply because they are cultured. These events offer the best excuse to get dressed up and look your very best. These occasions are also very festive and people are likely to be excited and chatty during intermission. Work your magic!
I hate when women tell me they read a book while riding the subway, bus, or train! If you have your nose in a book he cannot see you and you certainly can’t see him. Jump-start your commute by looking around for who’s on board. Mr. Right might very well be right next to you, but if you’re buried in your reading you will never know!
Your Cell
When I see a woman walking down the street on their cell phone, it drives me mad. I understand the temptation to use it, but you cannot make eye contact or pull off a great pick up line while you’re gabbing away. Break the habit of talking while walking down the street. If you aren’t paying attention to what’s going on, your potential future mate will not pay attention to you!
The Gallery Walk
It’s become very popular for galleries that are clustered in a single area of town to have Thursday or Friday night gallery walks once a month and sometimes more frequently. Wine is served, the artists are nearby to take questions and chat with visitors, and there’s a general aura in the air. It has become a great way for you to meet neighbors.
Sailing
Sail away! Sailing, yachting, and fishing are activities that specifically attract a lot of male interest. Many marinas and yachting clubs offer sailing lessons. You don’t have to live near the shoreline to partake—many landlocked started with large lakes have docks and boat clubs. Sign up for sailing lessons, or go on a chartered fishing trip with a friend or by yourself if you’re brave. The atmosphere of sailing makes it easy to start conversations with other participants.
Café Dating
Upscale, comfortable coffee shops have always been great places to meet other people. They are like single bars without alcohol. Café dating takes this idea a bit further. It’s a unique concept, and not every city will have this kind of opportunity. The café will give you an anonymous code and keep your first name, phone number, and email address on file. They will not give out your contact number, but the café singles director will call you to set up a date if someone picks you out of their book. Coffee shops and bars also have regular dating nights. They often come complete with gimmicks to get people talking. For example, all the women get a little lock that they wear around their necks and all the men get keys. If a man is interested in a woman, he approaches and unlocks her lock. Or she can approach a man and ask him to unlock her. If you’re in a good mood, and you can talk a few girlfriends into going with you, it might be fun.
All the best, Janis
www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com
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